There is a lie, propagated in culture, that sex is just sex. Like just going to a movie, or a jog, we can enjoy sexual experience and then just move on unaffected; unaffecting. We see this all the time. Think of every major TV show of the last generation: Friends, Sex in the City, House of Cards, Game of Thrones, even my beloved Seinfeld is implicated in the lie. Consenting people hook up, enjoy themselves, and then move on. No attachment. No STI’s. No pregnancy. No pain. No